Christmas on a Budget – Unique and Easy Gift Ideas

December 24th, 2011
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I apologize ahead of time that this blog post is so long but today is the 24th of December and your last day to get those last minute gifts.

We have 5 people living in our household, with my extended family we often have up to 15 additional people for Christmas. This includes the children that have grown and left home and bring their own families back for the holidays. So you can imagine that when I say Christmas on a Budget I really have to budget.

Shop Year Round

I have discovered that its very very important to shop for Christmas year round. That means that if I find it on sale in January and know it will fit next Christmas, its a good idea to go ahead and buy it at 50% off rather than wait an entire year and hope for the best and my finances. By incorporating this into my shopping agenda I have already saved (over 50%) by purchasing it early. Not to mention that I can cross that off my list and be that much farther ahead (already ahead in January!).

Destination Wal mart (or any discount store)

My next destination is usually Wal mart where they tend to have some real blow out prices year round on various items. Watch these sales closely. Shop for things in sets (I.e. bath sets, soap sets, make up sets etc.). Then find some baskets (either around the house or at yard/garage sales or your local dollar store) and create your own gift baskets. Knowing that grandma likes a specific lotion and finding it on a closeout sales you can really stock up and take care of her birthday and Christmas all in one shopping trip.

Check out The Dollar Store

Check out your local dollar store. Yes, I know, you worry about quality. Here are some things that are just fine to buy at your local dollar store. I often shop for gift bags (available year round) at the dollar store. Some even come available as “2 for $1.00″. Yup folks, that’s 2 gift bags for $1.00. What a deal! Add some tissue paper or shredded paper and you have instant gift wrapping!

Don’t stop with gift bags, greeting cards, Christmas Cards and more are also readily available. For the new bride you can often stock up on a unique gift. Make her up a gift basket of her favorite scents, cleaning supplies (include a bucket and sponges), candles, picture frames and more. You can be selective and choose items that appear to be higher quality or go whimsical and try out a different look all together. For as little as $5.00 you can have a gift all done up that looks very classy. If you combine this with items from a bath set you purchased at Wal mart or somewhere it will look even more expensive. Who says it has to be expensive to shop?

Creative Wrapping is a Winner

How you wrap your gifts makes a big difference. My sister always wraps her gifts to look very classy. With raffia, cellophane type papers and more. Inside you might find a coffee cup and your favorite brand of coffee or a great book to read. The wrapping is half the present. Presentation says a lot so don’t hesitate to get creative and add candy canes, raffia or even an inexpensive ornament that you grabbed up at the dollar store.

Capitalize on Hobbies

I have friends that love to knit and crochet. I found some great yarn that retails for over $7.00 normally for only $1.00 at the dollar store. I scooped up an armful of it and wrapped three skeins with a nice raffia bow and then wrapped that up in pretty paper to give to my friends. Just make sure to remove the tags identifying where you got it and how much you spent. My friends were delighted and I didn’t have to break my budget.

Creative Re Gifting

One year I found myself overwhelmed with so many different ornaments and Christmas decorations. My solution? I shopped at home, that is, I went through he boxes and picked out some of the older children’s favorites and wrapped them up nicely with a note that I was giving them back memories from their childhood. I explained how they always argued over who put this or that up and they were the one that gets this one. Or perhaps that I received this after they were born and I wanted them to have it. The ornaments became treasures to my children and I decluttered my Christmas decorations.

Little Treasures

For the new bride and groom give the spouse a small album of his or her new spouses baby pictures. It will be treasured and they can see how they became the handsome man or beautiful woman they are over the years.

Go In Together to Purchase a Larger Gift

Another favorite is for everyone to go in on a large ticket item together. If one of the recipients really really wants or needs something that is very expensive, get everyone else in on the gift. If everyone contributes say $5.00 to the item and you have 20 people contributing, then you have $100 to purchase said gift. If there is any money left over have an agreement on what to do with the money left over such as another inexpensive gift or refunding a portion equally to everyone that contributed.

Remember, It’s the Thought That Counts

Christmas doesn’t have to be expensive. You can make it enjoyable with tradition and a little bit of creativity. I have an older son that always makes a specific type of cookie for Christmas. My older daughter has another recipe that she always makes and brings.

My parents always bring other food items when they come to celebrate with us also. By dividing out the menu this way it saves on the food budget and everyone is ahead. No one has to pay for the brunt of the meal and we all save together.

Celebrating the meaning of the holiday rather than the cost is so much more exciting and fun for everyone. Staying within our budgets is so stress relieving. Especially when January rolls around.

 

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Creative and Unique Budget Friendly Christmas Gifts Part III of III

December 23rd, 2011
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Another great idea is to create your own family cookbook as a gift for family and friends. Write in your favorite memories with grandma or grandpa and add a few pictures and you have a great gift. Write down some favorite recipes and perhaps add in some family pictures at meal times or holidays. It doesn’t have to have a lot in it. Perhaps a recipe for a 4 course dinner and some photos.

For grandma and grandpa, have your child draw grandma or grandpa a picture and frame it for them. Frame school pictures and give those to family and grandparents. Grandparents cherish gifts like this and will brag about them to all of their friends.

My brother in law made some great family calenders one year on his computer. He included special dates such as birthdays and anniversaries. He also included artwork or photos for each month. The calendar was a unique gift that was used daily. If your printer is good enough print out a few copies for grandparents or other family members. If your printer is not good enough put it on a disk and take it to a print shop or your local photo kiosk and get copies printed.

Perhaps you are handy with a needle or even crochet or knitting. Craft a quilt or an apron and some potholders out of your daughters favorite clothes that she has grown out of. You can even turn old clothing into incredibly beautiful rag rugs.

Make a memory box out of childhood treasures for your adult children. Perhaps a favorite small toy and some other trinkets that they once cherished.

The list of possibilities is endless and its lots of fun to come up with fun and creative ideas for gifts without a lot of money. With some creativity and patience you can come up with some ideal gifts and enjoy your holiday season with a lot less stress. Shopping doesn’t have to be expensive and putting some thought into a gift or personalizing gifts shows your gift recipient how much you really do care about them.

 

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Creative and Unique Budget Friendly Christmas Gifts Part II of III

December 22nd, 2011
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Do you have a family member that enjoys watching the birds? Then give them a creative bird feeder kit. Next time you go shopping buy a small bag of bird seed, some peanut butter and some string. Look around your craft supplies or go to a local craft store or neighbors pine tree and gather some pine cones. Even little ones can roll the pine cones in peanut butter and then roll it in bird seed. Add a string to the top and hang it from a hook or rafter outside and watch the little birds come to eat. Perhaps you can also find a birding book at a local thrift store so that they can identify the birds.

Perhaps you are weeding out your closet prior to your new gifts of clothing? Don’t get rid of those former favorites. Find or create a nice box and make up some dress up clothes for that little girl that likes to dress up like mommy. Put in some old shoes, a scarf or two and some dresses or longer shirts to wear as dresses. Perhaps an old belt and even a hat. Wa la…you have an instant dress up box, your closet is cleaner and you have a little girl that is delighted to dress up as mommy. The added bonus is that you have cleaned out your closet too. Little girls will have hours of fun with this gift.

For an adult child that has recently left home, or the grandparents. Take all those duplicate photos out of those photo albums. They can be from a specific time, or a child hood or what have you. Frame them attractively or put them in a handmade album. Add some memories in the side bars and how you treasure them. Wrap nicely and you have a treasured memory gift for that special someone. Don’t forget to use their favorite memories or colors in your scrapbook. Its fun to reminisce.

 

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Creative and Unique Budget Friendly Christmas Gifts Part I of III

December 21st, 2011

For Those of Us on a Tight Budget

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It’s that time of year again, and we are right in the middle of the holiday season. As Christians we definitely want to participate and we do want to buy gifts for at least the younger set. So, with budgets tight and the economy bleak and more debt looming here are some great ideas for inexpensive or free Christmas Gifts for the younger set.

I’m sure if you open your jewelery box you have an old beaded necklace that you no longer wear? Here is an easy idea for the young gals that like to do their own jewelry making. Carefully take your necklace apart. Put the beads in a zip lock baggie. This could also be done with buttons you might have in a button can or lying around the house. Find some thread or twine or elastic beading thread (can be purchased), find something for a clasp (can also be purchased) and print a nice note or better yet use a label and your printer and label it decoratively as a beading kit. You could even take two or three necklaces apart and create this kit. You just cleaned out your jewelry box and created a relatively inexpensive gift for that special young girl in your life.

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Teaching Children That Less Is More Part III of III

December 20th, 2011
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We get them gifts of smaller value but still very treasured by each of them. In shopping throughout the year we often go to yard sales, garage sales and thrift stores and find similar themed items. Grouping them together is fun and makes the gift more treasured.

Building traditions with the family can be so much more memory building than just simply giving out tons of gifts that will wind up being unused in the end. When decorating think “understated elegance”. You’ve seen the house that seems to have everything in it. It soon looks cluttered and stuffy. Understated decorating looks very festive and simplifies life. It also states very clearly that “less is more”. Teaching children this from an early age helps them to grow up remembering the reason for the season and that presents aren’t the only meaning of Christmas.

Its fine to have a Christmas gift list, just keep within your budget, don’t apologize if someone gives you a gift and you have none to give in return. Consider a plate of goodies that the giver may not have time to give or even just a simple Christmas card. If its from the heart, its a gift. Even if it is just a card. Mae it a less is more season and consider the freedom it will afford you.

 

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Teaching Children That Less Is More Part II of III

December 12th, 2011
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Our first decoration to go up is a Christmas village that I have pieced together over the years. It started slowly about 20 years ago with a building. Over the years we have added to it each year. Some years I can only afford to go to the dollar store and buy a few items for it, other years I can afford a bit more. Funny though, the dollar store items have actually outlasted some of the other items we have purchased over the years. Add in some cotton for snow and baby powder on top of the roof for additional snow and the kids think its great. We never set it up the same way twice and each child participates in the setting up of the village. A great tradition that they all look forward to.

Gift giving can be a challenge when you have more than a few children. Between us my husband and I have 8 children, one grandchild (and another on the way) a son in law and a son in law to be. Then add in the grandparents on both sides, and 4 sets of aunts and uncles, additional cousins etc. You get the picture. To buy for this brood can be quite cost prohibitive.

To combat this large list we have a few great strategies. For our children over 18 we scale way back in order to give more to the younger ones. That is not to say we give them nothing. We get together and share the traditions of picking out the tree, putting up the tree, putting up the village, dinners and more.

 

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Teaching Children That Less is More Part I of III

December 6th, 2011
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Its so easy to get caught up in the spirit of gift giving and overextending our budgets

at this time of year. Children always want what they see on television commercials and they want it for Christmas, even if they just happened to see the commercial on Christmas eve.

Creating holiday traditions is a great way to make a long lasting memory of the holidays. A game will be “exactly what I wanted” for a few days and then it will go into the corner and begin to collect dust. Starting a holiday tradition, no matter what the tradition is, will on the other hand create a long lasting memory of the holiday as well as the excitement of looking forward to the holidays.

How does one begin to teach the children that “less is more”? Start early in the month

of December. Build up the traditional excitement. On the 1st of December we will start an advent calendar (easily made or found on the computer if you cannot afford one). On the 15th of December we will put up our Christmas tree. If we stop for a moment and think about it we often find that we are rich in tradition even if we are poor in finances.

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Fashion Shopping Tips for Moms on a Budget Part II of II

November 29th, 2011

Budgeting

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Following a budget can be a challenge sometimes, for example when our daughter started ballet this year we suddenly had to have ballet slippers, tights, a leotard and a skirt to wear over the top of the entire ensemble. Thankfully by doing some quick research online I was able to find them for under $5 each at a local discount store.

Teaching

Teaching kids to stick to the basics will also go far for dressing in fashion while sticking to a budget. Teach them the timeless classics of a pair of jeans, nice tee shirt and a pair of sneakers. It can be done for under $40 if one watches for sales, and is patient.

Accessorize

Don’t be afraid to add scarfs, double tee shirts up and roll up sleeves and other little fashion tricks you see around that look adorable. Our 7 year old loves to play with scarves and roll up her jeans. She makes her own fashion statement. Sometimes allowing kids to make their own fashion statement is a great way to save money because they will take something just laying around and use it as an accessory.

Set a New Trend

When a foster daughter (in her teens) couldn’t find matching socks one day she decided to declare it national don’t match your socks day. It worked and caught on with her friends. This also works with shoes (she couldn’t find matching shoes one morning and wore one of each kind on her feet to school). Teens love setting the trend and this one definitely did that. Soon, all her friends were dressing like that and it was a trend in our town for a long time.

Shop Around

Shopping around, being willing to go to yard sales and thrift stores and teaching my kids the value of a budget has become the best fashion advice for our family. Especially since small children grow so fast yard sales and thrift stores often have great deals on gently used clothing. Make friends with a clerk and you will know when the next shipment is expected. Don’t forget to be on hand to go through it right away before your friends figure out where you get all the kids great clothes.

Following some of these tips will definitely help your budget and who knows, the next new trend might come from your son or daughter.

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Fashion Shopping Tips for Moms on a Budget Part I of II

November 22nd, 2011
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Being a mom can be challenging enough, add in sticking to a budget and you can have a hearty challenge ahead of you.

Between us, my husband and I have 8 kids so we know well the meaning of a budget. With a drama queen daughter that naturally wants to fit in with the crowd, and a teen aged son that wants to look cool, it can be a challenge in and of itself to stick to a budget and divide it equally.

Add 3 foster children to the mix and you guessed it, we have one big family to shop for.

Neighborhood

My first recommendation is to get to know the neighborhood moms. This budget wise fashion trick works best for pre school and grade school aged girls. The trick is to make sure you get to know the children that are a size or two ahead of your child. If you are really creative you suggest getting together for yard sales and such and then spot the clothing that will work for your child. Make an offer and generally the other mom will just give you the clothing. Of course, being willing to give her your older children’s outgrown clothing that your child will not yet fit in will be a boon to this budget wise tip. This tip has saved me hundreds of dollars in clothing for our daughter.

Thrift Store Shopping

Thrift store shopping, I once took a teen shopping with me at a thrift store, “I wouldn’t be caught dead in there” she proclaimed as I gently took her arm and removed her from the car. When we got inside I handed her a $20 and told her to find some things she liked. She came back after about an hour and asked for .50 more to cover the final tax that she hadn’t completely figured in. She loved our little shopping trip and found an entire cart load of great clothing in the style she loved.

Basics

I tell my teens that I will buy the basics. Basic jeans (2 pair at the beginning of school) and 2 more as needed throughout the year. Along with underwear and a few nice shirts. This also includes up to 3 pair of shoes per year. Anything else they desire they will have to fork over the cash by earning it themselves. This has worked well so far.

When my 14 year old son came home wanting a $60 pair of jeans he was informed he could save his money and buy them or put it on his wish list for Christmas or his birthday. I also urged him to consider saving his birthday and Christmas money for such purchases. It took him several months to save his money and he finally had the required amount saved and asked me for a ride to the mall. He tried on several pair and finally made his purchase. I then went to a thrift store and spent the same amount on other items for the rest of the family. With my $60 I was able to outfit 5 people in the family. My son still likes his $60 jeans but he now realizes that he has to make the right choices if he wants a lot of clothing or fancy clothing.

 

 

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Great Reasons to Shop at 2nd Hand and Thrift Stores

November 15th, 2011
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In today’s economy many people are out of work or working in a job that pays less than they’re used to earning. Making due with less and paying out exorbitant fees for various (needless) luxuries can stretch a budget to the breaking point. So what happens when someone needs a new outfit or an item that is out of the budget? Simple you go to the local second hand/thrift store.

Shop local

Shopping at a local second hand or thrift store is less expensive and helps to keep the money in the local area. Keeping the money in your local area will be a boost for local economy. Shop wisely and shop local.

Vintage clothing

Many teens and adults alike love vintage clothing. Vintage clothing is readily available at both second hand and thrift stores for a fraction of the cost if one were to go out and purchase it at a high end retail shop. Additionally vintage clothing is well made and

less likely to deteriorate over time. Seriously, do you really think those new jeans with the holes in the knees are really worth $75? You can get the same style at a second hand or thrift store for under $5 and save the other $70 for something else.

Budget

You’d be amazed but even the wealthy have been spotted in second hand and thrift stores. Budget conscious people shop where they can afford whether it be yard sales, second hand stores or thrift stores there’s no shame in shopping on a budget. Saving money is what it’s all about and this is about the best way one can save money on

needed clothing or other household items.

Living green

Recycling is all the rage in this day and age. Shopping at your local second hand or thrift store is a form of recycling by giving new life to something that has been discarded and would otherwise be put in a landfill.

Create your own style

Everyone has their own sense of fashion and by shopping in a second hand or thrift store you can expand upon that sense of fashion. Why dress like everyone else? If

you shop at a second hand or thrift store you’re almost guaranteed to have a one of a kind item that no one else will be wearing. Make your own fashion statement not the same as everyone else.

Remember, “use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without” if you absolutely must have something “new” check out your local second hand or thrift store first and see if you can’t save a bunch of money on your wardrobe and household needs.

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